Either
you are a positive person or not, simple. Positivity is not an impulsive
moment, but a state of mind; a way of living which requires constant work and
continuous improvements to get desired results in life. It defines who you are
as a person! Sometimes we think of ourselves as positive people but are unable
to measure it. Hence, below is a great reality-check for those who need to
understand where they stand in life as far as having a positive outlook is
concerned. Be honest and read along:-
1. Define Your Mornings:
How
do your mornings look – grumpy and lethargic or energetic and full of zest? Do
you look forward to the rest of the day or do you detest having to face
anything other than your bed? Is your morning filled with doing
chores/exercising or is it always lazy? Do you almost every day make an effort
to rise early or are you always late? Do you have the time to eat proper
breakfast or do you gulp down just milk? Morning is the most important time;
your attitude in the morning defines your day! You are the best person to
assess as to which category you fall into.
2. Work Environment:
How
you are at work says a lot about your personality. Is your work always pending?
Do you not get along with your colleagues? Do you always feel like your idea is
better than others’? Is your desk always cluttered and disorganized? Do you
feel left out of important decisions? Do you hate your work? Do deadlines
stress you out? Most of the time is your relationship with your boss filled
with an unspoken tension? If any of the above is true, turns out you’re not
emanating positivity!
3. Eating Habits:
People
who can’t treat themselves with love and respect cannot expect the same from
others. Eating is the most basic way to show your body what it deserves. If you
are a positive person, turns out on most days you tend to eat right and refrain
from outside food. You don’t give in to temptations and you allot proper time
and energy to eat your meals, instead of merely swallowing it in a hurry.
Showing respect to roti and daal is one of your top priorities, since you are
well-aware of how most people are deprived of this very basal need.
4. Relationships:
How
you make others feel is reflective of how you really are. Are your
relationships mostly strenuous? Do you always doubt the loyalty of your loved
ones? Do you pose difficulties onto your relationships more often than desired?
Are you open and approachable to your colleagues? Do you prefer transparency in
your relationships or do you choose to be secretive and uptight? Are you
stubborn enough to give your ego more importance in comparison to losing a
loved one? (If you wish to learn some amazing secrets of health and
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5. Treating Others:
As
humans, we are allowed to get angry and quarrel with the people we love or are
close to. But what really defines our mettle is how we treat strangers or
underprivileged people. Do you tend to get angry if someone unknown comes to
you for help? Do you feel uncomfortable in a room full of people you have never
met before? Does the thought of sacrificing something to help someone
underprivileged give you the jitters? Does your ego and pride come between
approaching a stranger for help on your own accord? Do you go out of your way
to help someone without expectations?
6. Being Thankful:
The one thing common between everyone who preaches positivity is that they are all heartily thankful. If you are one of them you know how being thankful not only increases your chances of multiplying the good that you already have in your life, but it enables you to start attracting more and more. Being graciously grateful can take your life from good to straight-out great. But if you are a truly positive person, your prayer extends to not just you but your loved ones, peers, relatives, acquaintances and even the whole of mankind. (Wondering how to be grateful regularly? Get one of OUR UNIQUE GIFT, – ‘TRANSFORM YOURSELF’ specially designed to keep you on track; a process to be followed for being surrounded by positive people always!